Most of the time, divorce is a negotiating process. It’s like haggling and, if you’re like me, and haggling always made you super uncomfortable, don’t worry. It’s really not so bad. There is a lot of posturing, though, and oftentimes the first offer isn’t a very good offer (so the tendency is for some women to freak out very early on). The point, of course, is that if you put your best offer on the table at the beginning, you’d have no point from which to begin your negotiations. Besides, over … [Read more...]
Girl’s Night Out — Kick Cancer’s Ass
My favorite thing about divorce is watching the transformation of a woman from who she is in the beginning of the process to who she becomes at the end of it. I know it’s difficult, sometimes expensive, and usually fairly time consuming, but a lot of good comes out of divorce, too. As you’re no doubt already aware, marriage doesn’t always mean that life after “I do” is happily ever. When things in your marriage begin to wind down, it’s natural to feel a little panic at the idea of moving on and … [Read more...]
