Waiving child support in a Virginia separation agreement I hear the same objection all the time: "But my husband says he won't sign an agreement unless I waive child support." They're upset. They're scared. They don't know what to do. Most are loathe to accept any kind of financial assistance from their child's father anyway, but they're still not quite sure how they'll make ends meet WITHOUT child support. "What can I do?" they ask me, tearfully. So, it's a loaded question, and one … [Read more...]
Calculating Days in Virginia Child Custody
Calculating Days in Virginia Child Custody Child support is complicated. On the one hand, in many cases it isn’t an issue, because it’s based on a formula, and the formula is binding on our courts. On the other hand, it is an issue, because when you get into shared physical custody, for example, the level of support a paying parent would have to pay is less than under a primary physical custody arrangement. So, even if it IS straightforward on its face, that doesn’t mean that there isn’t a … [Read more...]
Visitation with Sick Kids
There’s nothing worse than seeing your kids sick. Unless it’s having sick kids and knowing that, under the current custody and visitation order/agreement, they’ve got to go to their dad’s. Whatever your feelings about or your relationship with your child’s father, having your children away from you while they’re sick is not at all ideal. If you’re like me (and because you’re reading this post, I kind of assume that you are), you want your children with you especially when they’re sick, no … [Read more...]
How Virginia Courts Decide Custody
Custody cases are tricky. It’s not like divorce which, although difficult, is more or less a financial transaction where both parties walk away with some of the assets and some of the liabilities in the marriage. It’s pretty much understood that you won’t walk away with it all, because your spouse legally deserves a portion of both the benefit and the burden of your accumulated marital wealth or debt. In custody…it’s different. There’s no way to actually split the baby, so, in the absence … [Read more...]
Sheera Herrell Taking Over as Managing Attorney and CEO of Hofheimer Family Law
Sheera Herrell Taking Over as Managing Attorney and CEO of Hofheimer Family Law We’re both excited and incredibly sad to announce that big things are under way at Hofheimer Family Law. If you know us, you know that for the last 25 years (yes, 25!) we’ve been dedicated to representing women only in divorce, custody, and support cases in Virginia. It all started in the 1990s when our founder, Charlie Hofheimer, started the firm. He was soon joined by Jack Ferrebee, and then, just a few years … [Read more...]
Traveling with kids during Virginia divorce
Before there’s a specific custody agreement in place, everything is in flux—including custody and visitation. In fact, before this, you probably never thought of things like parenting time, custody, or visitation, you just did what you had to do to make sure the kids were adequately taken care of. Well, now, everything has changed, and you’re left wondering what you (and your soon to be ex husband) are really allowed to do since, at least for now, there’s nothing specific in place that says what … [Read more...]
Reminder: Mother’s Day 2017 Custody Case Specials
They say a woman becomes a mother the moment she finds out she’s pregnant, and I think that’s so true. If you’re a mom, you’ve made a lot of sacrifices for the sake of your kids—and you’ve been making them since day 1. You’ve worked hard to provide your child with a beautiful childhood, and you’ve done a great job. Because of you, your child is becoming exactly the person he was meant to be. Your sacrifices haven’t gone unnoticed! But it certainly hasn’t been easy. And, if you’re facing an … [Read more...]
