Petitions to Modify Virginia Child Custody As you probably are already aware, once you have a child with someone, they never really go away. In a divorce or a breakup where there are no children, the parties are free to go their own separate ways and never see each other again. It’s not only desirable but encouraged. There’s no reason for them to have any future contact. A divorce is seamless; it completely, totally, and permanently separates the two former partners. With kids, it just … [Read more...]
Special Issues in Virginia Child Custody Cases
Custody cases are tricky. Like divorce, custody is one of those areas of law that varies pretty dramatically from state to state. There’s not a lot of standardization from place to place. Though almost all states have some iteration of the “best interests of the child” factors (here are Virginia’s ten best interests of the child factors), how those factors are interpreted and applied can be really different from state to state. (And, even within Virginia, from court to court – because the … [Read more...]
Divorce Life Hacks and Support
Going through a divorce isn’t easy. It isn’t easy for anyone, no matter what specific issues brought you to where you are today. No matter what you’re going through, you don’t want to be defined by your divorce. You, like any woman facing adversity, want to come out on the other side, better, stronger, and happier than you were before. Getting there—to that magical end point—can be difficult, though. Even though you have friends and family members who have been there before and can likely offer … [Read more...]
What does primary physical custody mean in Virginia?
The other day, I had a debate with a couple of the attorneys in the office. It’s interesting; we’ve been practicing so long, side by side, and yet, in some ways, our experiences (and, as a result, our professional judgment) are completely different. Okay, so here’s the issue. Mom and dad have joint physical custody, and mom wants to enroll their child in therapy. Dad says no. The order of the court (vis a vis the separation agreement, which was incorporated as an order of the court in the final … [Read more...]
Can I hire an out of area attorney to represent me in Virginia?
We get calls all the time from the northern part of the state, from women living in Fairfax, Alexandria, and Fredericksburg, and also from the western part of the state, from women living in Roanoke, or Christiansburg. Usually, they’re calling because they found us on the internet, and saw that our website was chock full of really valuable divorce and custody related information. Information that, frankly, they weren’t able to find quickly and easily anywhere else. For women with questions … [Read more...]
Virginia Custody Laws: Can I move with my child?
We see it all the time. When things don’t work out between a woman and the father of her children, her first impulse is to pack up and move back home. Without the support provided by the child’s father, there seems no reason, to mom at least, to stick around. In fact, the thing that seems the most logical is to just head back home, wherever that is. Whether it’s halfway across the world, on the other side of the country, or in the next city over, relocation can present a lot of different … [Read more...]
