I actually got into family law as a result of two abusive relationships, so I understand the ways it can shape you, affect your thinking, and alter the future. The first was a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. I didn’t think about his behavior in those terms at the time, of course; it actually took me several years (and a new, healthy relationship – with my now husband) to help me gain that perspective and see all the problematic behaviors. By the time I was offered and ultimately accepted … [Read more...]
Parent Withholding Information – Issues in Virginia Child Custody
Parent Withholding Information – Issues in Virginia Child Custody Sharing custody with an ex is difficult, even under the best circumstances. No matter what, it’s hard to face the idea of splitting your child’s time – especially holidays, vacations, and other special occasions – and knowing that means you’ll have less time, possibly by as much as half. Weekends, too – obviously, these are prime custody real estate that many parents who litigate custody wind up fighting (and spending … [Read more...]
Do I need a therapist in my Virginia divorce?
Do I need a therapist in my Virginia divorce? On Monday, I talked about divorce coaches and how useful they can be in Virginia divorce. I talked a lot about the emotional issues that many women face during the divorce process, and how important it is to deal with those issues alongside the divorce related issues. I get it. What you’re going through (or getting ready to go through) is scary. It’s huge. In fact, I’ve read that the experience to divorce is very similar to dealing with the death … [Read more...]
