Predatory online divorce and custody information

Online, you’ll find any number of so-called (self-proclaimed) experts in family law.  From divorce coaches to mediators to regular parents who’ve just been through a (usually high conflict) divorce or custody case themselves. This is often great.  Divorce coaches can do things – and give advice – that I can’t in the sense that it...

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Divorce and child custody are complicated and, especially in the very early days of your case, you may feel like you’re standing on quicksand.  Things are constantly changing and evolving between you and your soon-to-be ex, so it’s hard to have one conversation with an attorney that covers everything and, even if it did, you...

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Social media is a way of life for most people anymore, so it’s really no wonder that a lot of details about a lot of people’s divorce and child custody cases wind up online.  On the one hand, I get it.  I am a millennial and I vividly remember signing up for a Facebook account...

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Arizona’s Alec and Lydia Act

Even though I am well and truly sick and tired of “groundbreaking” family law legislation being named after kids who were murdered in contested custody cases, the Alec and Lydia Act – recently passed in the state of Arizona – is, I hope, the beginning of a new era. Though I am not licensed in...

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Parenting Time v. Visitation

In Virginia, when you file for child custody, you also often file for visitation and child support.  These petitions go hand in hand for a number of reasons, but probably the biggest one is that, if you don’t ask for something, the court doesn’t have the power to award it.  So many things in law...

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Parenting Plan Options: Part One

If you’ve never been through it before, it’s hard to know what to ask for when it comes to custody and visitation.  Probably you realize that your soon-to-be ex (husband, boyfriend, partner – whatever the label) will have at least some parenting time.  But what will that look like?  How can it be structured?  What...

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Dad took down family photos – what can I do?

Question: My child’s father and I separated and he stayed in the marital home.  Our kids go back and forth.  This week, my daughter came back to my new place after spending a weekend at dad’s.  She cried and told me that dad had taken down all of our family photos.  She was really upset...

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Did my husband already hire your firm?

Question: I have been following your firm for awhile and I thought you represented women only.  I guess my husband looked through my phone; he said he called your office and hired you to represent him!  Is that true?   This question comes from an actual real life conversation I had recently.  To be honest,...

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