Going through a custody case is harrowing in the best circumstances (is that an oxymoron?) but it’s even worse when your soon-to-be ex is an alcoholic or struggles with substance abuse issues. And you know what’s worse than that? Knowing he’s an alcoholic but without having information or evidence to back it up. You’ve seen...
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In Virginia, before we divide property in divorce, we classify it as either separate, marital, or hybrid. Separate property is just that – separate – so it is owned by only one party and it is not divided in divorce. Marital property, on the other hand, was either earned, purchased, or acquired during the marriage. ...
It’s not superficial to be concerned with the way you present in public and, whether fortunately or unfortunately, the sartorial choices you’re making matter. They matter across the board, but it definitely matters if you’re going to court in your family law case. Full disclosure: Virginia doesn’t technically have “family court,” or, at least, that’s...
Let’s start with the maybe not-quite-so-obvious. In family law, it doesn’t really matter what “studies” suggests or what the “data” says. We are not making arguments about what is best for many children, or most children, or some randomized, average, but ultimately representative group of children. We are talking only about your children. The children...
In most cases, paternity isn’t a big issue. In most cases, the parties don’t dispute it – and, obviously, there’s hardly ever any issues as it relates to maternity. Right? You know full well you were in the room where it happened. Sure, there can be complications with adoptions or foster care, but that’s not...
Divorce can be an overwhelming and challenging experience, especially for women handling challenging issues such as child custody, spousal support, and property division. In Chesapeake, VA, women often face unique obstacles during this process, from financial disparities to emotional stress and safety concerns. At Hofheimer Family Law Firm, we focus exclusively on representing women, ensuring...
I’m married – and I’m a divorce attorney. It’s a bit of an oxymoron, isn’t it? Or is it? I don’t even know anymore. I’m also a pretty connected, online person, so I hear all the chatter (I try to make sure I hear all the chatter) about staying single, getting or staying married, and...
If you are going through a custody dispute in Virginia and cannot afford a private attorney, you may be able to get a court-appointed attorney. Virginia courts do not automatically assign a lawyer. Instead, a judge evaluates the nature and details of the case before determining if someone is entitled to a court-appointed attorney. We...