How does Virginia law divide assets generated in a marriage?

If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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If you, like everyone else, are reading Belle Burden’s memoir on marriage, Strangers, you probably noticed that prenups feature dramatically in the storyline.  I have made no secret of the fact that, over the years, I do not have a strong positive opinion of prenups.  In fact, my experience with prenuptial agreements throughout the years...

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If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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When can I file for divorce?

The laws are changing beginning July 1 – so, though my answer to this question up until now would have been one thing, now it is different.  Let’s talk about it! In Virginia, we have both fault and no fault divorce.  (At least for now – the Virginia Family Law Coalition is looking into this...

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The murder of Cerina Fairfax – who was in the midst of a divorce in Northern Virginia at the time that her husband, a former Virginia lieutenant governor, killed her and then himself in the family home while the children were home – has made waves over the last few months, sparking renewed attention on...

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Adultery After Separation (But Before Divorce)

In Virginia, you are married until you are divorced.  While Virginia requires a fairly lengthy period of separation before you are legally permitted to finalize your divorce, being legally separated is not the same as being actually divorced. Separated is still married.  In fact, the entire point of requiring a period of separation is so...

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As you probably already know, not all wives are SAHMs.  Goodness knows I’m not!  From a divorce perspective, having access to your own income, benefits, and opportunities is so critically important.  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – one of the biggest evils when it comes to divorce and child custody cases...

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After He Cheats

  There’s no good way to find out that your husband has cheated on you.  Even if you don’t know – you only suspect – it’s a challenging time.  You are trying to reconcile something horrible with the man that you thought you knew but, also, you’re trying to plan for what comes next. Can...

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