Family Court Dress Code

Family Court Dress Code

It’s not superficial to be concerned with the way you present in public and, whether fortunately or unfortunately, the sartorial choices you’re making matter.  They matter across the board, but it definitely matters if you’re going to court in your family law case. Full disclosure: Virginia doesn’t technically have “family court,” or, at least, that’s...

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Does it ever benefit women to get married?

I’m married – and I’m a divorce attorney.  It’s a bit of an oxymoron, isn’t it?  Or is it?  I don’t even know anymore.  I’m also a pretty connected, online person, so I hear all the chatter (I try to make sure I hear all the chatter) about staying single, getting or staying married, and...

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If you, like everyone else, are reading Belle Burden’s memoir on marriage, Strangers, you probably noticed that prenups feature dramatically in the storyline.  I have made no secret of the fact that, over the years, I do not have a strong positive opinion of prenups.  In fact, my experience with prenuptial agreements throughout the years...

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Did my husband already hire your firm?

Question: I have been following your firm for awhile and I thought you represented women only.  I guess my husband looked through my phone; he said he called your office and hired you to represent him!  Is that true?   This question comes from an actual real life conversation I had recently.  To be honest,...

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No one wants to pay spousal support. No one. No man, no woman, no one, wants to pay money each month to help support and maintain their ex partner. It used to be that only men could be required to pay support to their ex-wives. It wasn’t sexist, either, because in previous decades, women didn’t...

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