It’s always stressful when a marriage breaks down, especially if one party is surprised to find that the other feels like it’s really, truly over. In almost every case, there’s a period when tensions are at their highest, and everyone feels unbalanced. Though it is probably safe to say that most people live separate under...
Monthly Archive: June 2021
The question “do we both need an attorney?” is an interesting one, and one that I would answer in three ways: yes, no, and maybe. What seems like an easy question (is there ever an easy question?) is really a lot more complicated than you might think at first blush. The easy question is actually...
It’s scary to be the lesser earning spouse, even if you know full well that the reason you’ve earned less is because the two of you made decisions throughout the marriage that were designed to support the household and the family. In a lot of ways, earning less puts you in a much more difficult...
In Virginia, only attorneys licensed by the Virginia Bar Association can represent clients by appearing in courts in the Commonwealth. An attorney can be licensed in one of two ways – either by attending an accredited law school and passing the bar exam (by far the most common method), or by “reading” the law, which...
I still hear some version of the military ten year myth, even now. I’m not sure where it’s coming from, whether it’s military JAG attorneys, the military service members themselves, or something else. It seems unlikely to me that outreach groups for military services would be misinformed, but it’s entirely possible. In a lot of...
At least a few times every single week, we get a man who – despite our pretty significant web presence and consistent women-only branding – calls our office about hiring an attorney for a divorce or custody case. When we tell him that we represent women only, he gets angry. Typical, right? He tells us...
Though spousal support is harder to get than ever, there are still a lot of cases where it is pretty desperately needed. It’s pretty sexist to assume that the recipient of spousal support would only be the wife, or that wives in general need support to survive, but since I only represent women, I don’t...
Relocation cases come up a lot. It turns out, many of us move somewhere that we might not otherwise have moved in order to support our spouse’s career. It happens a lot, and not just for the military! The problem is, though, that when things end up not working out, the spouse who moved regrets...