How can I look up whether someone is divorced in VA?

Whether you want to check the status of your own ongoing case – especially if you are not represented by an attorney – or you’re trying to check up on someone else’s divorce records, it’s relatively easy to get this information in Virginia. Where are divorces filed in Virginia? We have the Circuit Court Information...

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Sometimes, divorce comes about gradually, over time, as people outgrow relationships that once served them.  In other cases, though, there was one triggering event that set events in motion, so to speak. These cases are the most difficult, I think, because it wasn’t a gradual thing that you could adjust to over time.  It was...

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After He Cheats

  There’s no good way to find out that your husband has cheated on you.  Even if you don’t know – you only suspect – it’s a challenging time.  You are trying to reconcile something horrible with the man that you thought you knew but, also, you’re trying to plan for what comes next. Can...

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My husband cheated – what can I do?

You don’t have to end your marriage because of infidelity, but many women ultimately choose to end it.  I’m not here to judge you for your choice, either way, but instead to help give you guidance on the Virginia divorce process so that you have an idea of what to expect if divorce is the...

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You probably are familiar with the burden of proof required in criminal cases – beyond a reasonable doubt.  It is the highest burden of proof possible under the law, and it’s a fundamental component of American justice.  You are innocent until you are proven guilty, and you must be so guilty that there is not...

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What if he’s stalking me?

  It’s scary how common post-separation abuse is – but it’s something that we see over and over, even in cases where before separation there had never been any overt domestic violence. I don’t want to be a fearmonger – gosh, nothing of the sort! – but I do want to encourage you to stay...

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Constitutional Rights in Family Law

We’re all used to the idea that, by virtue of the Constitution, we have these certain, unalienable rights. And it’s true – we do. But the reality of what those rights are, and what they mean, and how and when they apply is a little bit more complicated.  In a lot of ways, family court...

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Harassment during Virginia Divorce

My sister in law asked me a question the other day – for a friend of a friend – and it really irritated me. Not that she would ask me a question; that’s fine, we’re really pretty close. But the question itself irked me. Her friend had a friend, from a really long time ago,...

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