Help! My trial is coming up and I want to hire an attorney now!

Depending on how long you’ve waited – and how soon your trial is –  you won’t have all available options if you wait until the last minute.  There is no specific legal right to assistance of counsel in family law cases (unlike in criminal cases) so, for the most part, if you can’t afford an...

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If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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Advice for Recently Separated Women

Are you separated – and headed towards divorce – or just separated and ultimately hoping to reconcile?  Sometimes it’s clear.  Other times, though, it’s anything but.  In any case, whatever you’re hoping for in the long term, you probably have a lot of questions about what to expect and what you should be doing.  That’s...

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Question: My girlfriend is married.  They have two kids and jointly own the home that they live in.  He’s Navy, but they’re not in military housing – like I said, they own jointly.  She had an attorney draft a separation agreement, but he’s ignoring her.  He is manipulative and locks her out of the house. ...

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I see this question *all* the time, especially on social media in the various mom groups that I have joined over the years.  I never know exactly how to answer it – especially in few enough characters that most casual social media users won’t be bored by me writing an entire treatise – so I...

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In general, I feel that the question, “Should I stay or should I go?” is one that is best answered by the specific woman who is questioning whether she should end her marriage.  I don’t usually like to weigh in.  I may provide some general guidelines or try to give her some food for thought,...

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Divorce Book Recommendations for Kids

The studies have consistently shown that kids do better with navigating a divorce and/or separation situation within their own family when they can see other similar families.  That’s not to say that your kids can’t have play dates with kids whose parents are still happily married or that you need to seek out the other...

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Family law cases – often involving divorce, child custody, child support and spousal support – are often very invasive.  In discovery, the legal process that we use to determine what the issues are in an ongoing case that has been filed with the court, we often ask for all sorts of documents. In a divorce...

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