Can I go to the kid’s events during dad’s parenting time?

Question: My child’s father and I share custody.  Our child is involved in a number of activities and there are practices, games, recitals, meets, and more, all on a regular basis.  I’ve always taken the child to everything, and I’ve never missed a game or performance, but now that we’re divorced, my child’s father is...

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Kids keep you busy.  If it’s not one season, it’s another.  And between the after-school events, social activities, birthday parties, sports, summer camps, classes, and other activities, it can be overwhelming shuttling the kids to and from all of it. Keeping up with the calendar alone can be challenging enough, but for separated and divorced...

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Coparenting Issues: Are You Gatekeeping?

There are a million different issues that come up in coparenting.  One of them – or, at least, one of the ones I hear about the most often – is gatekeeping. As a mom myself, I can completely relate.  All of the information coming at you about the kids at all times can feel insane. ...

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