Monthly Archive: August 2025

Stepparent Adoption Q&A

It didn’t work out with your child’s father but you’ve found love – and stability – and you’re hoping this means that things will change for your child(ren), too.  You wonder, “Can my new partner adopt my child?  What would that look like?” Assuming, of course, that your new partner is on board with this...

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The good news is that litigated family law cases constitute the vast minority of cases.  No matter what the stakes, most cases ultimately settle for a number of reasons but chief among them are these: (1) no one can afford long-term litigation, (2) litigating doesn’t yield better results, and (3) going to court takes longer....

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What are my entitlements in a VA divorce?

No matter how long you were married, the assets you generated in your marriage matter.  Not only will you never be younger, but – if you waive too much – you’ll never have the chance to take advantage of compounding interest. That can be the difference between being able to retire and … not. Sure,...

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Going to court is – by almost any metric – the nuclear option in a family law case.  Literally everyone is scared of it and almost anyone would try to avoid it if there was any way at all.  Usually, though not always, it’s possible to negotiate outside of court.  In fact, most family law...

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Annulment in Virginia: Is it possible?

A major misconception about annulments is that they’re easily granted when the marriage has only lasted a short period of time.  A marriage of a few hours – or even a few weeks or months – doesn’t necessarily qualify for an annulment.  By contrast, even, a longer term marriage could, potentially, qualify for an annulment...

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We had a case, many years ago now, where the couple spent ages (and a ton of money) arguing over how to divide a series of commemorative china plates featuring a number of different waterfowl. The argument was that these pieces were valuable and held sentimental value to each; dividing them between the parties was...

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Does Virginia recognize legal separation?

I’m on a lot – like a LOT – of mom groups on social media and one thing they always seem to ask a lot about is divorce and child custody. While I understand it, because actually scheduling an appointment to speak with an attorney and then doing it is both intimidating and expensive, I...

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