Can I just go watch a court hearing in Virginia?

Can I just go watch a court hearing in Virginia?

If your divorce or custody case is coming up soon and you’re in Virginia, it’s not a bad idea to consider going to court to watch a case in action – maybe even a case run by the judge who’ll be presiding over your case, if you know who that will be already. But –...

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Custody with an alcoholic

Going through a custody case is harrowing in the best circumstances (is that an oxymoron?) but it’s even worse when your soon-to-be ex is an alcoholic or struggles with substance abuse issues. And you know what’s worse than that? Knowing he’s an alcoholic but without having information or evidence to back it up. You’ve seen...

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Does it ever benefit women to get married?

I’m married – and I’m a divorce attorney.  It’s a bit of an oxymoron, isn’t it?  Or is it?  I don’t even know anymore.  I’m also a pretty connected, online person, so I hear all the chatter (I try to make sure I hear all the chatter) about staying single, getting or staying married, and...

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Depending on how long you’ve waited – and how soon your trial is –  you won’t have all available options if you wait until the last minute.  There is no specific legal right to assistance of counsel in family law cases (unlike in criminal cases) so, for the most part, if you can’t afford an...

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Divorce and child custody are complicated and, especially in the very early days of your case, you may feel like you’re standing on quicksand.  Things are constantly changing and evolving between you and your soon-to-be ex, so it’s hard to have one conversation with an attorney that covers everything and, even if it did, you...

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Requesting his Venmo history in discovery

Every case is unique and presents its own specific challenges.  In every case, your family law attorney is looking for those little golden nuggets of information that will make all the difference in your case.  The trouble is that, unless you know where to look, we may be just guessing. Oftentimes, of course, our guesses...

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Navigating a family law attorney’s bad reviews

It happens – even to us.  Bad reviews on public platforms – like Google or social media – are something that most businesses have to navigate.  It’s a hard thing, especially when you know how hard you work to give each client the attention they deserve, but even more so when you know that new...

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Same old, same old, am I right?  I know there are arguments here on both sides – moms only want custody because they want the child support and dads only want more parenting time because they want to pay less child support. But, the truth is, it’s really easy to tell who is most motivated...

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