How does Virginia law divide assets generated in a marriage?

If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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If you, like everyone else, are reading Belle Burden’s memoir on marriage, Strangers, you probably noticed that prenups feature dramatically in the storyline.  I have made no secret of the fact that, over the years, I do not have a strong positive opinion of prenups.  In fact, my experience with prenuptial agreements throughout the years...

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If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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Divorce and child custody are complicated and, especially in the very early days of your case, you may feel like you’re standing on quicksand.  Things are constantly changing and evolving between you and your soon-to-be ex, so it’s hard to have one conversation with an attorney that covers everything and, even if it did, you...

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Arizona’s Alec and Lydia Act

Even though I am well and truly sick and tired of “groundbreaking” family law legislation being named after kids who were murdered in contested custody cases, the Alec and Lydia Act – recently passed in the state of Arizona – is, I hope, the beginning of a new era. Though I am not licensed in...

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Adultery and Spousal Support

Adultery, sodomy, and buggery are – at least for now – grounds for fault-based divorce in Virginia.  There are a number of other, alternative fault-based grounds, including cruelty, apprehension of bodily hurt, desertion, abandonment, and felony conviction, but adultery has always been sort of in its own category because it is also a crime (a...

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When can I file for divorce?

The laws are changing beginning July 1 – so, though my answer to this question up until now would have been one thing, now it is different.  Let’s talk about it! In Virginia, we have both fault and no fault divorce.  (At least for now – the Virginia Family Law Coalition is looking into this...

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Parenting Plan Options: Part Two

Coming up with a parenting plan isn’t just about how you’ll share the days in each week, though it is certainly about how you’ll share the days in the week.  To make matters even more complicated, there are many other considerations that should be reflected in your parenting plan, and you’ll want to make sure...

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