Helpful Tips About Your Child’s Guardian Ad Litem

Posted on May 13, 2010 by Hofheimer Family Law

The guardian ad litem (GAL) appointed to represent your child's best interests during your Virginia child custody case carries serious clout in the courtroom. Your child's guardian ad litem has influence over your Virginia child custody ruling which is second only to the judge's.

With this in mind, here are several pointers to keep in mind when dealing with your child's guardian ad litem:

  • No confidentiality You have no privilege of confidence with the GAL. Anything said can be repeated to the other side.
  • A guardian ad litem carries authority Your child's GAL has the authority to inspect any records about you and your child. Honesty is the best policy, as is brevity, when answering their questions.
  • Neutrality is required The guardian ad litem is a neutral party regarding parental rights. She will come from the position of equal parental rights.
  • They deserve your respect Be respectful to the GAL at all times. Never bicker or sound-off about your frustrations with your children's father.
  • They are experienced You may attempt to ingratiate yourself with the GAL, but he or she is used to this by experience and may even react with suspicion. Be pleasant, but be yourself.
  • Accommodate a GAL's requests Always be accommodating to the GAL's requests for appointments. Also, remember the courts will likely favor the parent who shows they are willing and able to co-parent. Whenever possible, demonstrate your accommodation to the father for the GAL to see with his own eyes.

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