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December Girl’s Night Out at Mermaid Winery

  Why Every Woman in Hampton Roads Needs to Mark Her Calendar for Girl’s Night Out! When was the last time you had a night that was just about YOU? No kids asking for snacks, no partner wondering where you put the remote, no work emails buzzing in your pocket. Just you, connecting with other...

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Everyone – and I do mean everyone – who is going through a divorce is concerned about the total overall cost and looking for clever hacks to save money.  One of the biggest costs, for many people, is what they pay their divorce attorney. So, whether you’re hoping to navigate your divorce without paying an...

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Question: My girlfriend is married.  They have two kids and jointly own the home that they live in.  He’s Navy, but they’re not in military housing – like I said, they own jointly.  She had an attorney draft a separation agreement, but he’s ignoring her.  He is manipulative and locks her out of the house. ...

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Separation – What Do I Take When I Go?

Once you realize that your marriage is over, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible.  But many women don’t know where to start and what their first steps should be.  So, what should you do? In Virginia, you are legally separated when (1) you form the intent to end...

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Nonpayment of Child Support

  You can get a court order establishing child support in one of two ways. One: You can file a petition with the juvenile court for custody, visitation, and/or child support, go to court, and ask the court to establish child support (as well as, potentially, custody and visitation).  This can be either an initial...

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I see this question *all* the time, especially on social media in the various mom groups that I have joined over the years.  I never know exactly how to answer it – especially in few enough characters that most casual social media users won’t be bored by me writing an entire treatise – so I...

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In general, I feel that the question, “Should I stay or should I go?” is one that is best answered by the specific woman who is questioning whether she should end her marriage.  I don’t usually like to weigh in.  I may provide some general guidelines or try to give her some food for thought,...

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Virginia Grounds for Divorce

From the outset, let me be clear: you don’t need a reason to end your marriage.  If you want a divorce, you can get one.  No fault on either party’s part is required. That’s not to say, of course, that no fault exists.  I don’t think anyone ends their marriage for no reason.  But I...

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