Should I be flexible with my child’s father when he asks for changes to the schedule?

What does a family law case cost? Part Two

It is always hard to ascertain, especially ahead of time, exactly how much your family law case – whether divorce or child custody – will ultimately cost.  Even though I do this day in and day out, and have for over fourteen years now, it’s hard for even me to help give people the “ballpark”...

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I see this question *all* the time, especially on social media in the various mom groups that I have joined over the years.  I never know exactly how to answer it – especially in few enough characters that most casual social media users won’t be bored by me writing an entire treatise – so I...

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Things That Don’t Work in High Conflict Cases

It’s hard to get generalized divorce and custody advice because no two cases are exactly alike.  It’s hard, too, to give generalized advice.  In a lot of blogs and articles, I talk generally about divorce or custody cases.  But if yours is a high conflict case, you may feel like the generalized advice doesn’t fit...

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What does supervised visitation mean?

In most cases, both parents will have the opportunity to have uninterrupted, unsupervised parenting time with their minor children, whether by agreement between the parties or by court order. In extreme cases, though, it is possible that the court would order one party or the other to have supervised visitation.  This will usually be in...

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Single moms are always under a lot of pressure.  For one thing, life – and parenting – is hard.  For another, they’re constantly subject to the judgment of others. One way I see this play out – unfairly, in my opinion – to the detriment of mothers and children is in how other people like...

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FREE Divorce Coaching Offered for HFLF Clients

As the only Virginia-based family law firm dedicated to representing women only, we offer a sort of special place in the market.  Though there are two other firms dedicated to the representation of men – an easy thing, I think, since men are often the higher wage earners – we’re the only firm that represents...

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