Monthly Archive: November 2014

Protecting Yourself in a Relationship

There is really no such thing as a cookie cutter divorce.  Though there are things that we see over and over again, and there are certainly some themes that emerge, at the end of the day I think that it’s safe to say that most divorce attorneys would say that every single divorce is different....

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Girl’s Night Out: What’s next?

On Tuesday night, our Girl’s Night Out Group met up at The Lucky Oyster in Virginia Beach.  The weather was great, and everyone came in proudly sporting their “I Voted” stickers.  Everyone was in high spirits, excited about the upcoming holiday season, and full of news about what they’ve been up to since we got...

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Same Sex Marriage in Virginia

You would have to be living under a rock to have not heard anything about the Supreme Court recently.  But, just in case you do actually live under a rock, I’ll give you a quick recap.  On October 6th, the Supreme Court denied the opportunity to review seven different federal circuit court rulings that held...

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Breastfeeding in Virginia

It seems like, lately, breastfeeding is a huge issue.  Either that, or I’m just more sensitive to it because I work in a law firm that is focused on representing women in family law cases—and because my boss, Kristen Hofheimer, is pretty well known for a pro-breastfeeding piece she wrote back in law school about...

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Spousal Support in Virginia Divorce

In many, many cases, married women curtail their careers in order to be able to give more of themselves to their husbands and families.  It’s a good decision, a solid decision, but it’s not one that comes without consequences.  In the event that things don’t work out the way you planned, spousal support is there...

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Adultery in Virginia from A-Z: Part Two

On Monday, we talked at length about how adultery works in Virginia divorce cases.  There’s still more you need to know, though, if you’re facing a divorce and have questions about how adultery might apply to your case. We’ve already talked about what adultery is, the differences between pre and post separation adultery, and how...

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Adultery in Virginia from A-Z

In a lot of ways, adultery really isn’t all that important anymore.  Since no fault divorce became a possibility and the pressure to prove a fault based ground has lessened, people have been more content with moving forward with their divorces without regard to fault (even if fault based grounds exist) for a lot of...

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Is it worth fighting for ___ in your divorce?

In divorce, some things are negotiable, and other things just aren’t.  It’s a good idea to speak with an attorney before you enter into negotiations with your husband, just so that you’re aware of where the negotiating points are.  In my experience, people who don’t tend to give away things that they should never give...

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