What does a family law case cost? Part Three

What does a family law case cost? Part Three

Yes, I’m back, and I’m still talking about costs in your divorce or child custody case because there is (still) more information that I could share that might impact the choices that you make in your case, at least when it comes to whether to hire an attorney (and if so, whom). We’ve already talked...

Read More

What does a family law case cost? Part Two

It is always hard to ascertain, especially ahead of time, exactly how much your family law case – whether divorce or child custody – will ultimately cost.  Even though I do this day in and day out, and have for over fourteen years now, it’s hard for even me to help give people the “ballpark”...

Read More

What does a family law case cost? Part One

The elephant in the room, when you’re talking about a family law case, is always going to be the lingering question of how much it will cost.  One part of that will be – if you choose to retain counsel – exactly how much that representation will cost. But there are other costs, too, and...

Read More

Choosing a family lawyer – any lawyer, really – is a difficult proposition, especially when you add to it the fact that, if you’re like most women, you are currently in the middle of one of the most difficult periods of your entire adult life.  This relationship you built your life around, this one you...

Read More

Ten Year Marriage: Does It Matter?

I hear all sorts of chatter about whether – or not – it matters if your marriage has lasted ten or more years before you divorce.  I’ve talked about it before, in the case of the military ten year myth, but let’s dive in deeper. Now, before I go any further, I want to say...

Read More

After He Cheats

  There’s no good way to find out that your husband has cheated on you.  Even if you don’t know – you only suspect – it’s a challenging time.  You are trying to reconcile something horrible with the man that you thought you knew but, also, you’re trying to plan for what comes next. Can...

Read More

The good news is that litigated family law cases constitute the vast minority of cases.  No matter what the stakes, most cases ultimately settle for a number of reasons but chief among them are these: (1) no one can afford long-term litigation, (2) litigating doesn’t yield better results, and (3) going to court takes longer....

Read More

What are my entitlements in a VA divorce?

No matter how long you were married, the assets you generated in your marriage matter.  Not only will you never be younger, but – if you waive too much – you’ll never have the chance to take advantage of compounding interest. That can be the difference between being able to retire and … not. Sure,...

Read More