Can my husband walk out on me, our child – and our lease?

Question: My husband and I are separating.  He’s verbally and emotionally abusive, and I can’t take it anymore.  After I told him it was over, he told me he was going to leave the apartment we’re renting and I’d have to “figure it out.”  I’ve been a stay at home mom and he knows I...

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When can I start dating after separation?

There’s an easy answer to this question.  There’s also a harder answer.  Let’s get into it, though, and talk more about dating after separation and divorce. Dating after separation: the easy answer The easy answer is that life is messy.  That marriages often end long before divorces are finalized.  That, for many separated and separating...

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Adultery After Separation (But Before Divorce)

In Virginia, you are married until you are divorced.  While Virginia requires a fairly lengthy period of separation before you are legally permitted to finalize your divorce, being legally separated is not the same as being actually divorced. Separated is still married.  In fact, the entire point of requiring a period of separation is so...

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As you probably already know, not all wives are SAHMs.  Goodness knows I’m not!  From a divorce perspective, having access to your own income, benefits, and opportunities is so critically important.  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – one of the biggest evils when it comes to divorce and child custody cases...

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What does a family law case cost? Part Three

Yes, I’m back, and I’m still talking about costs in your divorce or child custody case because there is (still) more information that I could share that might impact the choices that you make in your case, at least when it comes to whether to hire an attorney (and if so, whom). We’ve already talked...

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What does a family law case cost? Part Two

It is always hard to ascertain, especially ahead of time, exactly how much your family law case – whether divorce or child custody – will ultimately cost.  Even though I do this day in and day out, and have for over fourteen years now, it’s hard for even me to help give people the “ballpark”...

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What does a family law case cost? Part One

The elephant in the room, when you’re talking about a family law case, is always going to be the lingering question of how much it will cost.  One part of that will be – if you choose to retain counsel – exactly how much that representation will cost. But there are other costs, too, and...

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Choosing a family lawyer – any lawyer, really – is a difficult proposition, especially when you add to it the fact that, if you’re like most women, you are currently in the middle of one of the most difficult periods of your entire adult life.  This relationship you built your life around, this one you...

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