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Parenting Education Seminars
It should come as no surprise to any parent that, when it comes to parenthood and raising children, there is literally no instruction manual. Hospitals really do just let you take brand new babies home, with little more than a stern admonition to not shake the baby and a quick peek at your car seat…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: alternative dispute resolution | BEST INTERESTS | best interests of the child | child support | coparenting | coparenting seminar | custody | factors | modify | parenting seminar | shared custody | visitation
What is primary physical custody?
Understanding custody isn’t easy. In fact, I often tell people that learning about custody first involves learning the vocabulary of custody, and understanding how the different forms of custody relate to each other. Though custody litigation is common, these disputes often center around similar themes. In general, child support is not a particular contentious…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: child custody | child support | coparenting | parenting time | primary physical | shared physical | sole custody | sole legal
When does permanent spousal support end?
Spousal support cases are some of the trickiest. Even though the law has changed recently to allow Fairfax guidelines to be applied in temporary support cases, permanent support cases are a little more tricky. The law also changed in terms of the taxability and deductibility of awards of spousal support; under the current laws, spousal…
Filled under: Spousal Support Tag with: cohabitation | death | litigation | manifest injustice | remarriage | spousal support | termination
Primary Physical Custody and Child Support
I’ve talked about custody every which way from Sunday, but often with more emphasis on shared physical custody than primary physical custody, even though moms almost always tell me, within minutes of our first meeting, that they want sole custody of their children. Failing that, of course, the next best thing is often primary physical…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: ADDICTION | appeal | best interests of the child | CHILD ABUSE | child custody | child support | primary physical custody | sole custody | super dad
I slept with my husband — are we still separated?
There are a lot of divorce-related things that are difficult to discuss, but it’s important to hire an attorney with whom you can be honest. There are not a whole lot of things that feel worse than finding out – at trial or some other inopportune moment – that you don’t really know what’s going on…
Filled under: Divorce Tag with: affidavit | divorce | divorce seminar | no fault divorce | one year | separation | separation under the same roof | sex | six months | uncontested divorce
What property in a divorce is marital?
In most cases, my clients have been with their husband for a number of years, accumulating a number of possessions – both consequential and inconsequential. Though we don’t often spend much time dividing the sheets and bath towels, other things, especially big ticket items like houses and cars, do occupy a fair amount of time…
Filled under: Property Dispute Tag with: DIVISION | house | hybrid property | inheritance | marital property | prenuptial agreement | property | real estate | separate property
50/50 Custody in Virginia
Custody and visitation are always major hot button issues in divorce and custody cases, especially because there are so few guarantees. The whole ‘best interests of the child’ standard means that there’s not a standard custody and visitation arrangement ordered; it’s a subjective, not an objective, process, which means that a variety of different arrangements…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: 50/50 custody | custody | custody agreement | juvenile court | parenting time | primary physical custody | separation agreement | shared custody | split custody | virginia judge | visitation
What is cohabitation? Am I cohabiting?
What is cohabitation? Am I cohabiting? OCTOBER 28, 2020 BY KATIE CARTER Cohabitation is a key component of legal separation in Virginia. For a lot of reasons – chief among them being the fact that separation is a sort of loosey goosey concept here in Virginia – we get lots of questions about separation. When are you separated? Am…
Filled under: Separation Tag with: adultery | affidavit | cohabitation | FAULT BASED GROUNDS | immediate divorce | legal separation | litigation | Second Saturday | separation agreement | separation under the same roof | uncontested divorce
Should my child be in therapy during my custody case?
Should my child be in therapy during my custody case? OCTOBER 26, 2020 BY KATIE CARTER Contested cases are hard on everyone involved. I work with women, so my perspective is often that of the wife and mother. I actually rarely see children. It’s really not appropriate; for me to do my job, I have…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: abuse | BROKEN HOME | children | coparenting | custody | free books | litigation | mental health | parenting education seminar | PHYSICAL VIOLENCE | therapist | therapy | TOXIC MARRIAGE | virginia
Business Valuation and Divorce
I hesitate to use absolutes, because, in law, there are very few. We rarely say “never” or “always”; we often say “it depends”. But I’m pretty sure I can absolutely say that, if you or your husband own a business, your divorce is going to be more expensive than a divorce where we have two…
Filled under: Divorce Tag with: BUSINESS | business valuation | DIVISION | divorce | expert | FAMILY BUSINESS | litigation | separation | SMALL BUSINESS
Addiction and Child Custody
Drug and alcohol addiction is a serious problem in our society. Many families have loved ones who struggle under their addictions for years and years at a time. Watching the recent presidential debate, where President Trump mentioned Senator Biden’s son, who was discharged from the military because of his struggle with addition. I’m not here…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: ADDICTION | alcohol | best interests of the child | custody | custody book | custody seminar | drugs | MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL | PRESCRIPTION PILLS | rehab | sober | sobriety | supervised visitation | TREATMENT | visitation
Child Abuse and Virginia Custody Cases
Child abuse cases are seriously some of the most harrowing cases that family law practitioners have to deal with. To be honest, I can only imagine what it must feel like to have children in a position where you worry that, if your child’s father receives custody, they may be abused or mistreated in any…
Filled under: Child Custody Tag with: CHILD ABUSE | COPARENTING RELATIONSHIP | court | custody | custody book | divorce | free report | litigation | mental health | mental illness | reunification | separation
What can I expect at a divorce seminar webinar?
As you may have recently heard, we’ve transitioned our thirty year old baby, Second Saturday: What Every Virginia Woman Needs to Know About Divorce, from a seminar to a webinar on Zoom. It was a change that was both made necessary by the pandemic and also just reality; people want to turn more and more to…
Filled under: Divorce Tag with: attorney | divorce seminar | DIVORCE WEBINAR | fee waiver | legal advice | Second Saturday | What Every Virginia Woman Needs to Know About Divorce | ZOOM
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