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Depending on how long you’ve waited – and how soon your trial is –  you won’t have all available options if you wait until the last minute.  There is no specific legal right to assistance of counsel in family law cases (unlike in criminal cases) so, for the most part, if you can’t afford an...

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To put him on child support or to NOT put him on child support – that is the question!  It’s a legitimate question, too, because filing a petition for child support can open the door to more custody litigation. Let’s talk about it. Filing petitions for child custody, visitation, and child support In Virginia, if...

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Online, you’ll find any number of so-called (self-proclaimed) experts in family law.  From divorce coaches to mediators to regular parents who’ve just been through a (usually high conflict) divorce or custody case themselves. This is often great.  Divorce coaches can do things – and give advice – that I can’t in the sense that it...

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If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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If you, like everyone else, are reading Belle Burden’s memoir on marriage, Strangers, you probably noticed that prenups feature dramatically in the storyline.  I have made no secret of the fact that, over the years, I do not have a strong positive opinion of prenups.  In fact, my experience with prenuptial agreements throughout the years...

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If you’re considering a divorce and you live in Virginia, you’re probably wondering how, exactly, we divide assets here.  You are definitely in the right place and I can help you begin to understand what to expect and what to ask for.  Let’s jump right in, shall we? So, first thing’s first.  Before we can...

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Should I leave my husband?

There are questions that no one else can answer for you – and this is definitely one of them.  Though, over the course of our careers, each of us have counseled hundreds (thousands?) of women, telling a woman that she should absolutely leave her husband is … not something that we do. In most cases,...

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Should I pack a bag for dad’s parenting time?

Navigating a new – or even a long term – coparenting relationship is challenging no matter what, but it’s especially challenging when you know (or suspect) that your child’s father does not have all the things in his home that he really needs to welcome the kids on his parenting time.  So, what do you...

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