In Virginia, joint legal custody means that coparents have to work together to reach decisions on three main issues: non emergency medical care, education, and religious upbringing. In many cases, we don’t have any issues in any of these three areas though there are some notable exceptions. Sometimes, the issue of vaccinations comes up; in...
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The worst days are the days when we lose. And, look, the truth is that, sometimes, we all lose. In fact, I’d say that, in most cases, we feel like we almost always lose at least a little bit; that’s just the nature of divorce and custody. Few cases are ones where the outcome is...
For many people who are in the beginning stages of contemplating a divorce, one of the first steps is a so-called trial separation. During this time, many things can happen but some of the most common are attending marriage counseling, meeting with pastors and other counselors belonging to the couples’ religious faith, meeting with attorneys,...
Everyone is using AI. Heck, I’m using AI. I don’t always use AI, and I don’t use AI instead of writing things myself, like this article. But I do use it sometimes for inspiration, to proof and polish, or even to help fill in gaps. Sometimes, when I can’t find the words (which, I admit,...
Virginia is not a state that follows a presumptive 50/50 custody model. In Virginia, the court is supposed to consider all forms of physical custody – primary, shared, and split – equally before making a decision in line with the “best interests of the child.” That doesn’t mean, though, that we don’t see a lot...
When it comes to custody and visitation decisions, there are a lot of criteria that we – attorneys, judges, and Guardians ad litem – must consider. As a parent, there are a lot of criteria you may be weighing, too. One of those factors is almost certainly the child’s preference. Does the child prefer to...
If your divorce or custody case is coming up soon and you’re in Virginia, it’s not a bad idea to consider going to court to watch a case in action – maybe even a case run by the judge who’ll be presiding over your case, if you know who that will be already. But –...
Before I get really going here, let me just lead with the conclusion: Virginia is not a state that is particularly friendly to grandparents when it comes to custody and visitation. That doesn’t mean that grandparents can’t file and ask a court to grant them custody and/or visitation – actually, any non-parent third party could...