Does cheating matter for child custody?

Does cheating matter for child custody?

There are few things in a family law context that drive extreme emotion quite like adultery and child custody.  When you combine the two, it’s a recipe for volatility. But … does it matter? It’s an excellent question and one definitely worth discussing.  Let’s get into it. If your soon-to-be ex-husband (or ex boyfriend) cheated...

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When can I file for divorce?

The laws are changing beginning July 1 – so, though my answer to this question up until now would have been one thing, now it is different.  Let’s talk about it! In Virginia, we have both fault and no fault divorce.  (At least for now – the Virginia Family Law Coalition is looking into this...

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In the last several years, there have been some major changes to Virginia family law.  Just last year, in 2025, guideline child support amounts were raised.  This year, in 2026, the two major changes for family law are (1) that post-separation adultery is no longer recognized as a cause of action and (2) that, even...

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Parenting Plan Options: Part Two

Coming up with a parenting plan isn’t just about how you’ll share the days in each week, though it is certainly about how you’ll share the days in the week.  To make matters even more complicated, there are many other considerations that should be reflected in your parenting plan, and you’ll want to make sure...

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Who – or what – is a Guardian ad litem?

A GAL is a Guardian ad litem.  A Guardian ad litem is an attorney appointed by the court to represent a person who, legally at least, is considered unable to represent themselves.  In Virginia, we see GALs appointed in a couple of different scenarios – in cases where a party is incarcerated or where they...

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Navigating a family law attorney’s bad reviews

It happens – even to us.  Bad reviews on public platforms – like Google or social media – are something that most businesses have to navigate.  It’s a hard thing, especially when you know how hard you work to give each client the attention they deserve, but even more so when you know that new...

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Same old, same old, am I right?  I know there are arguments here on both sides – moms only want custody because they want the child support and dads only want more parenting time because they want to pay less child support. But, the truth is, it’s really easy to tell who is most motivated...

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It doesn’t happen often, but every once in a while there’s a terrible storm – or the threat of a terrible storm.  When you have a parenting plan or a custody order in place, you’re supposed to follow it.  But does a storm create an exception?  Let’s talk about it. Life is anything but predictable,...

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