Question – How Do I Get Him Out of the House?

Question: My girlfriend is married.  They have two kids and jointly own the home that they live in.  He’s Navy, but they’re not in military housing – like I said, they own jointly.  She had an attorney draft a separation agreement, but he’s ignoring her.  He is manipulative and locks her out of the house. ...

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Separation – What Do I Take When I Go?

Once you realize that your marriage is over, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible.  But many women don’t know where to start and what their first steps should be.  So, what should you do? In Virginia, you are legally separated when (1) you form the intent to end...

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In general, I feel that the question, “Should I stay or should I go?” is one that is best answered by the specific woman who is questioning whether she should end her marriage.  I don’t usually like to weigh in.  I may provide some general guidelines or try to give her some food for thought,...

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Virginia Grounds for Divorce

From the outset, let me be clear: you don’t need a reason to end your marriage.  If you want a divorce, you can get one.  No fault on either party’s part is required. That’s not to say, of course, that no fault exists.  I don’t think anyone ends their marriage for no reason.  But I...

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For the most part, if you have a well-drafted separation agreement or even a very basic court order, you should be clear on what, exactly, needs to happen to wrap everything up with a nice little bow on top once your divorce is finalized.  Sometimes, though, that is not the case – whether because of...

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The good news is that litigated family law cases constitute the vast minority of cases.  No matter what the stakes, most cases ultimately settle for a number of reasons but chief among them are these: (1) no one can afford long-term litigation, (2) litigating doesn’t yield better results, and (3) going to court takes longer....

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What are my entitlements in a VA divorce?

No matter how long you were married, the assets you generated in your marriage matter.  Not only will you never be younger, but – if you waive too much – you’ll never have the chance to take advantage of compounding interest. That can be the difference between being able to retire and … not. Sure,...

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Going to court is – by almost any metric – the nuclear option in a family law case.  Literally everyone is scared of it and almost anyone would try to avoid it if there was any way at all.  Usually, though not always, it’s possible to negotiate outside of court.  In fact, most family law...

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