Question – How Do I Get Him Out of the House?

Question: My girlfriend is married.  They have two kids and jointly own the home that they live in.  He’s Navy, but they’re not in military housing – like I said, they own jointly.  She had an attorney draft a separation agreement, but he’s ignoring her.  He is manipulative and locks her out of the house. ...

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Separation – What Do I Take When I Go?

Once you realize that your marriage is over, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible.  But many women don’t know where to start and what their first steps should be.  So, what should you do? In Virginia, you are legally separated when (1) you form the intent to end...

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I see this question *all* the time, especially on social media in the various mom groups that I have joined over the years.  I never know exactly how to answer it – especially in few enough characters that most casual social media users won’t be bored by me writing an entire treatise – so I...

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For the most part, if you have a well-drafted separation agreement or even a very basic court order, you should be clear on what, exactly, needs to happen to wrap everything up with a nice little bow on top once your divorce is finalized.  Sometimes, though, that is not the case – whether because of...

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Six Month Divorce in Virginia

Everyone, once they’ve decided their marriage is over, wants the marriage to be over as soon as possible.  Absolutely no one enjoys lingering overlong in the awkward period in between separation and divorce. So, how do you get it done faster? It’s hard to get a fast divorce, especially in Virginia.  Virginia is – as...

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Question: My marriage has been over for years and I’m ready to end it.  The problem is, my kids – now teenagers – are refusing to come with me.  They want to be near their school and their friends.  What happens if they don’t come?  I need to start this separation so I can move...

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There is so much confusion around family law and all the different ways that cases can come up.  Sometimes, it’s a matter of divorce; in othercases, it’s just custody.  It’s seldom the question of something seemingly simple – like an annulment – but it is possible that you could just breakup, if you were never...

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Divorce Book Recommendations for Kids

The studies have consistently shown that kids do better with navigating a divorce and/or separation situation within their own family when they can see other similar families.  That’s not to say that your kids can’t have play dates with kids whose parents are still happily married or that you need to seek out the other...

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