Can my family law attorney legally withhold this info?

Question: I am in a custody case in Virginia.  My child’s father and I both have lawyers and there is a Guardian ad litem involved.  I got a letter from the other attorney that my attorney forwarded to me, stating that they were withdrawing from the case.  I asked my attorney if she knew why...

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Separation – What Do I Take When I Go?

Once you realize that your marriage is over, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible.  But many women don’t know where to start and what their first steps should be.  So, what should you do? In Virginia, you are legally separated when (1) you form the intent to end...

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Nonpayment of Child Support

  You can get a court order establishing child support in one of two ways. One: You can file a petition with the juvenile court for custody, visitation, and/or child support, go to court, and ask the court to establish child support (as well as, potentially, custody and visitation).  This can be either an initial...

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Stepparent Adoption Q&A

It didn’t work out with your child’s father but you’ve found love – and stability – and you’re hoping this means that things will change for your child(ren), too.  You wonder, “Can my new partner adopt my child?  What would that look like?” Assuming, of course, that your new partner is on board with this...

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Do I even want to hire a family law attorney?

It’s okay.  You can be honest.  I know there are a million things you can think of that you would rather do than hire – and pay for – a family law attorney.  You are likely desperate to discover that you do not, in fact, need one at all and that, on balance, handling your...

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Is he delaying divorce to avoid payment?

Men delay the inevitable – divorce – for a million different reasons, but one of the most classic reasons is the most obvious one.  As long as he’s delaying, he’s not paying.  It’s kind of kin to the old adage “it’s cheaper to keep her,” which I admit – I loathe. He’s not paying in...

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Will my child’s father get parenting time?

I’ve heard so many different versions of the same story – a deadbeat dad, an abusive dad, a homeless dad, a narcissistic dad, an addicted dad – and desperate, terrified moms wanting to know what their options are. For one reason or another, many have asked me whether they’d get sole custody, whether they could...

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Can I just waive child support?

As soon as your child’s father realizes the connection between parenting time and child support – basically, the more time he takes, the less he’ll pay – he’ll probably start asking for more time, whether he actually wants more time or not. So, the immediate, and natural, reaction most moms have is, “Well, what if...

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