What to Do When Your Loved Ones Are Upset About Your Divorce in Virginia

Posted on Jul 15, 2011 by Hofheimer Family Law

When you and your spouse are getting a divorce in Virginia, you’ll probably be focused on your own relationship, and the challenges you’ll face while ending it; however, it’s important to realize the social impact of divorce, and how to address it, so that you can avoid some of the painful conflicts it can cause.

First of all, let go of guilt. Your decision to seek a divorce is entirely up to you and/or your spouse. Only the two of you truly know the state of your relationship, and it’s up to you to decide if and when to end it. It’s also up to you how you’re going to handle the aftermath of divorce.

In some cases, it can be awkward to remain on good terms with your ex’s friends if you aren’t friendly with him. Sometimes the friends may take sides and be the ones who back off despite your efforts to remain in their lives.

Your family may have their own opinions about your decision to seek a divorce in Virginia, and your relationships with family -particularly in-laws – might suffer. If you have children, it’s best to try and keep things amicable at the very least.

The social impact of divorce varies from case to case. You don’t always have full control of the outcome of these situations, but you can minimize the blow by keeping a positive outlook and sticking with the people in your life who are supportive.

Contacting a Virginia Divorce Attorney

There are very specific rules governing divorce in Virginia. At Hofheimer Family Law Firm we are committed to providing you with the experience and compassion you deserve and the successful results you need to move on with your life. Request a FREE copy of our divorce guide for women in Virginia, or reserve your seat at our monthly divorce seminar – 757-425-5200.