Working Towards Favorable Child Custody Arrangements

Posted on Apr 28, 2010 by Hofheimer Family Law

If you’re a Virginia woman and mother who is considering a divorce, your main concern is the safety and well-being of your children.

Child custody is an emotionally draining issue in a divorce and women have so much at stake when they have to share their children with their former spouse after a divorce. It’s essential, however, to try and keep a level head and make the best possible arrangements for you and your children.

In cases where there was no abuse or other extreme factors, you may want to avoid unnecessary court time and negotiate a custody arrangement out-of-court and with the help of your Virginia divorce lawyer. You may even choose to try for a collaborative divorce or divorce mediation, depending on the circumstances of your divorce.

Below are some tips to keep in mind as you work through the negotiations:

  • Agree to be civil and respectful with your spouse and to communicate in a healthy way. If this can’t be done, collaborative divorce may not be a viable option.
  • Be realistic and practical about the best home base for your child. Take into consideration all financial, emotional, and logistical factors.
  • Use a calendar or planner to help you decide on and organize your child’s visitation arrangements and special days.

When addressing these delicate issues, many couples find it helpful to seek the guidance of a Virginia divorce lawyer. A good attorney will be understanding of your needs and will help you create a custody agreement that serves your family well.

At this vulnerable time, it’s critical that you have exceptional legal representation that not only understands the specifics of your case, but is dedicated to your best interests and that of your family.

The Virginia divorce attorneys at Hofheimer Family Law Firm represent Virginia women who wish to file for divorce. We are committed to fighting for your rights, assisting in child custody disputes, and ensuring that you receive everything you are entitled to and need in order to start your new life. You can learn more by requesting a FREE copy of our guide, What Every Virginia Woman Should Know About Divorce, or reserving your seat at our monthly divorce seminar – 757-425-5200.