Articles

I just posted the following blog which is stirring up a hornet's nest Don't Bet on the Mediation Horse in every Race–Women often lose big in Mediation ! Posted by Charlie Hofheimer on October 3, 2009 at 2:46pm As an attorney for 35 years, a trial attorney representing only women since 1992 through my six...

Read More

You and Uma Thurman have much in common !

As you and Uma Thurman wisely know, taking care of oneself is your very first priority when confronting divorce. But, knowing what to do and doing it are two entirely different facts. Like most caring moms, the childrens' activities and your hectic schedule intervene with the best of intentions regarding taking care of yourself. "Well",...

Read More

So You bring your child to the dentist ,a painkiller is prescribed after some routine dental work, and he is dead the next day. This happened to Michael Blankenship, an autistic child who was given a prescription for a fentanyl patch, which is a drug that the FDA warned is only for patients who have...

Read More

When Oprah Winfrey speaks, we all listen. And when Oprah has children speak–WOW–the message is compelling. So, go to the link http://www.oprah.com/media/20080601_tows_111006010FEELSLIKEOCOM_O_VIDEO_1 and listen to the voices of the children of divorce. Hauntingly poignant ! Whenever children speak their truth-parents should listen. Does this mean you cannot leave a bad marriage ? Of course not...

Read More

Why Marriage Matters http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1908243,00.html (The Well / Cover Story) Buffeted by affairs and ennui, the intact, two-parent family is under assault. What America needs to get over its commitment issues. (Hint: it isn't love) TIME.com (see TIME, 7/13/2009 edition). Essayist Caitlin Flanagan has written a compelling and accurate analysis of the hardship created when marriages...

Read More

15 truths you must know to complete your successful divorce

1. Nobody will look out for you like you will. The best attorney in the world cannot know or care as much about your outcome as you do, so partner with your attorney, set achievable goals and keep communicating. 2. Do not make your children your confidantes during your divorce – children should be allowed...

Read More