Divorce When You – the Wife – are the Breadwinner

As you probably already know, not all wives are SAHMs.  Goodness knows I’m not!  From a divorce perspective, having access to your own income, benefits, and opportunities is so critically important.  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – one of the biggest evils when it comes to divorce and child custody cases...

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What does a family law case cost? Part Three

Yes, I’m back, and I’m still talking about costs in your divorce or child custody case because there is (still) more information that I could share that might impact the choices that you make in your case, at least when it comes to whether to hire an attorney (and if so, whom). We’ve already talked...

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What does a family law case cost? Part Two

It is always hard to ascertain, especially ahead of time, exactly how much your family law case – whether divorce or child custody – will ultimately cost.  Even though I do this day in and day out, and have for over fourteen years now, it’s hard for even me to help give people the “ballpark”...

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As far as divorce is concerned, Virginia is a sort of tough state.  We’re somewhat old fashioned in that we allow for both fault-based and no-fault based divorce; we also require a much longer period of legal separation compared to many other states nationwide. In order to finalize a divorce action in Virginia, you must...

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Advice for Recently Separated Women

Are you separated – and headed towards divorce – or just separated and ultimately hoping to reconcile?  Sometimes it’s clear.  Other times, though, it’s anything but.  In any case, whatever you’re hoping for in the long term, you probably have a lot of questions about what to expect and what you should be doing.  That’s...

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I have always felt strongly that, when it comes to working and the cost of childcare, it is not the responsibility of only one party to earn ‘enough’ to make childcare ‘worth it’.  It’s a shared responsibility between two partners, so the fact that one partner is lower earning is relevant but should not be...

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December Girl’s Night Out at Mermaid Winery

  Why Every Woman in Hampton Roads Needs to Mark Her Calendar for Girl’s Night Out! When was the last time you had a night that was just about YOU? No kids asking for snacks, no partner wondering where you put the remote, no work emails buzzing in your pocket. Just you, connecting with other...

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Question: My girlfriend is married.  They have two kids and jointly own the home that they live in.  He’s Navy, but they’re not in military housing – like I said, they own jointly.  She had an attorney draft a separation agreement, but he’s ignoring her.  He is manipulative and locks her out of the house. ...

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